Sayings of Muhammad
As a person with a busy lifestyle, and a
parent of four children, I have had to look for innovative ways to
protect our sense of decency, as well as build character in myself and
children.
This started me sharing selected sayings of
prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) with my family. Muhammad (peace be
upon him) lived during the sixth and seventh centuries. Muslims believe
him to be God’s last prophet and messenger to mankind. He (peace be upon
him) invited people to the same God that Abraham, Moses and Jesus (peace
be upon them) invited to.
The sayings of prophet Muhammad (peace be
upon him) number in the thousands, and cover a variety of topics. They
serve as guidance to more than one billion Muslims (one in five people)
worldwide.
As a family these sayings guide us through
the day to day challenges of life, and we often use them for settling
differences. Daily, they help to quiet our souls.
Reflecting on the benefits they have
brought me and my family, I felt obligated to share some of them with
people who have never heard Muhammad’s (peace be upon him) sayings
before, and are searching for a better way of life.
If each of us strives for better lives, and
inner peace, we can make our families and our piece of the world a
better place.
Below are thirteen such sayings. I hope you
benefit from them as much as we continue to do:
1. He who remembers his Lord and he who
does not are as different from each other as the living and the dead.
(Abu Musa Al-Ashari in Bukhari and Muslim)
2. When you are three together, two (of
you) must not converse privately without the third until you are in the
company of other people, because it makes the third sad. (Abdullah ibn
Mas’ud in Bukhari and Muslim)
3. None of you should be alone with a woman
unless you are her father, her husband or her brother. (Ibn Abbas in
Bukhari and Muslim)
4. Among the believers who show most
perfect faith are those who have the best disposition and are kindest to
their families. (Aisha in Tirmidhi)
5. Four traits make anyone who possesses
them a hypocrite, and anyone who possesses one of them possesses a part
of hypocrisy till he abandons it: When he is trusted, he betrays his
trust; when he speaks, he lies; when he makes a covenant, he acts
treacherously; and when he quarrels, he abuses. (Abdullah ibn Amr in
Bukhari and Muslim)
6. Charity is due upon every limb of a
human being on each day that the sun rises. To act justly between two
(people) is a charity. To help a man mount his riding beast, or to load
his provisions on it is a charity. A good word is a charity. Every step
towards prayer is charity. Removing from the road what causes harm is a
charity. (Abu Huraira in Bukhari and Muslim)
7. When one commits fornication he is not a
believer, when one steals he is not a believer, when one drinks
intoxicants he is not a believer, when one takes plunder on account of
which men raise their eyes at him he is not a believer, and when one of
you defrauds he is not a believer; so beware, beware! (Abu Huraira in
Bukhari and Muslim)
8. A man asked what faith was, to which the
Prophet (peace be upon him) replied, “When your good deed pleases you
and your evil deed grieves you, you are a believer.” He then asked what
was sin and received the reply, “When a thing disturbs (the peace of)
your heart, give it up.” (Abu Amama in Ahmad)
9. The one who will be dearest to God and
nearest to Him on the Day of Resurrection is a just leader, and the one
who will be most hateful to God on the Day of Resurrection and will
receive the severest punishment will be a tyrannical leader. (Abu Sa’id
in Tirmidhi)
10. If anyone protects the propriety of
what is between his jaws and what is between his legs (i.e. he should
not commit fornication or adultery), I can assure him paradise. (Sahl
ibn Sa’d in Bukhari)
11. The major sins are associating other
objects of worship with God, disobedience to parents, murder, and giving
false witness. (Abdullah ibn Amr in Bukhari and Muslim)
12. Take advantage of five things before
five others overtake you: your youth before you grow old; your health
before you fall sick; your money before you become poor; your leisure
before you become busy; and your life before you die. (Amr ibn Maymum in
Tirmidhi)
13. It is better for a man to give a small
amount of money as charity during his lifetime than to give a hundred
times more at the time of his death. (Abu Sa’id al-Khudri in Abu Dawud)
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101 Selected Sayings of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him)
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Bukhari, Muslim, Tirmidhi, Sunan of Abu Daud, and Muwatta of Imam Malik
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Sahih Bukhari -
http://www.sahihalbukhari.com/sps/sbk/
Sahih Muslim -
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Location of Hadith -
http://www.quran-hadith-index.com/hadithpersonalnotes.htm